I have uploaded a photo but cannot see it on my profile -why?

Because you clicked on Photos and uploaded via that facility. That is your photo album. To upload a photo onto your profile you need to double click the shadowed image on the left of your profile description and upload it that way.

What is the Group facility used for?

The group section is used for members with similar interest sexual or otherwise to swap ideas, arrange meets, join in discussions

What is My Messenger and what is it used for?

My messenger is like a mini MSN, when you click it it will open up a oblong box, you can pick who you wish to PM by looking at those online and clicking the small speech icon

What is My wall and what is that used for?

My Wall is similar to the one on Facebook, it is there for people to make public comments or communicate with you.

Can I upload sexy videos of me and my partner?

Yes of course as long as they comply with British Laws and do not contain any images of children or bestiality

I am a newbie to all this so is this site secure and is my email address ever passed on or on public display?

Yes this site is secure, all email address are stored and encoded on a secure server and are never displayed or given out to any other member.

I want to upload my photo but I am scared people who know me/us will see it.

We do encourage people to upload their photos as it plays an important part to making contact. However we do respect your right to privacy and if this is the case we will be only to happy to pixel out any distinguishing feature free of charge at your request. You can achieve this by sending your photo to admin@ssuk-herts.co.uk